I must say, my husband is a pretty good gift buyer but always has been. Of course, I am not subtle at all in my approach to getting what I want! If he doesn't listen, I ensure my older son does- he would never want to see his darling mother disappointed. I am presently working on a trip to Paris for my 40th in a couple of years time- do you think by telling him that's what I want every day from now till then will a) be too obvious and b) spoil the surprise?